Make sure that in any type of bondage play that you and your partner have an open line of communication. Communication is a big thing when it comes to restraint play an even though you won't be partaking in heavy play, it is always safe to have a "SAFE" word for when you have had to much. A "SAFE" word is a word you both would choose but make sure it is a word that you don't use in the bedroom at all. As we all know when we get caught in that moment we tend to go into the "Don't STOP" mode. If you say "Don't STOP" as in you don't want it anymore an wish for your partner to stop they may think you would like them to keep going.
Overview/Use The CalExotics Scandal Bondage Bar is designed to restrain your partner whether you are in a submissive/dominate relationship. The Scandal Bondage Bar I would say if absolutely perfect for those who are wanting to test the waters of being restrained. The Scandal Bondage Bar is best suited for beginners and definitely not for those who are experienced in the bondage area. Scandal Bondage Bar can be used on male or female as it is adjustable. Make sure that in any type of bondage play that you and your partner have an open line of communication. Communication is a big thing when it comes to restraint play an even though you won't be partaking in heavy play, it is always safe to have a "SAFE" word for when you have had to much. A "SAFE" word is a word you both would choose but make sure it is a word that you don't use in the bedroom at all. As we all know when we get caught in that moment we tend to go into the "Don't STOP" mode. If you say "Don't STOP" as in you don't want it anymore an wish for your partner to stop they may think you would like them to keep going.
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Overview/Use Want to live out your fantasies? Well with Bad Dragon you can to a point with their fantasy dildos. I was excited to get Kelvin The Ice Dragon for review. There are so many dildos to chose from so it was hard to decide what I wanted. Kelvin can be used by both the ladies and the gentlemen as he is anal safe due to his flared base. So if you want to use Kelvin anally you an do so safely. Kelvin would love to dive deep into your vagina or your bum, just make sure not to swap from one orifice to the next without cleaning him or placing a condom over him. Kelvin could also be easily harnessed since he has a flared base. I would say that Kelvin The Ice Dragon is far from your traditional dildo but he is just that no bells or whistles just humps and bumps. Depending on the size you get will depend on if you are getting Kelvin on a beginner level or not. Kelvin ranges from small to extra large; which is good if you aren't a size queen but even the smallest option still might be an obstacle for some to overcome. If you are a size queen there is a Kelvin for you as well. For my review I chose Kelvin Large with Firm Silicone an I have to tell you that he is a queen size toy which my vagina is not queen size. So let's look at the specs on Kelvin Large: Head Diameter-2 inches Shaft Diameter-1.8 inches Knot Diameter-2.80 inches Usable Length-7.5 inches Total Length-9 inches The color of Kelvin vary as you can get him in toy exclusive colors, standard colors or custom colored from marbled to custom fade. My Kelvin is a custom fade and the colors were chosen by me. Read on to learn more about the Kelvin Large...... Overview/Use So wanting to try out something new I reached out to Good Vibrations about reviewing a harness an I was sent out the Sportsheets Boudoir Red Lace Corset Harness. Harnesses can be used for many different reasons whether it be used for: Man & Woman for double penetration Man & Woman for a the woman to be able to peg her man Woman & Woman for penetration Or For those who like to pack for whatever reason The purpose behind my wanting to get a harness is to of course trying something new in the bedroom. Don't go running out an getting a harness to spring on your partner if that is the reason you are getting it. The Sportsheets Boudoir Red Lace Corset Harness, is perfect for beginners who are wanting to get their feet wet when it comes to using a harness. The Fleshlight Original is designed for those who are male bodied. Fleshlight is one of the top male mastubators on the market. I wouldn't recommend this to a beginner to mastubation sleeves, unless you are ready to try out several kinds of suction and sensations. If this would be your first Fleshlight purchase then yes, I recommend it being your starting point on getting your perfect Fleshlight. Getting use to the Fleshlight can be a bit tricky. I reached out to Good Vibrations about getting the Fleshlight Original for review as my boyfriend has been begging me to get him a "coochie" as he calls it so I FINALLY broke and got him one. Only reason it took forever for me to get him one was simply because he kept calling it a "coochie machine" instead of a pocket pussy so I was looking for battery operated strokers which none appealed to me. I requested the Fleshlight Original as a starting ground and since it is suppose to be the Cadillac of male mastubators I figured it would be better than his previous $9 sex shop clearance rack deal. So I was excited when I was approved to review the Fleshligh Original as was my boyfriend. A few specs on the Fleshlight Original Full Unit Length: 10 inches Diameter: 4 inches Sleeve Diameter: .75 inches Weight: 1.5 pounds These measurements are ideal for those men who are on the girther side of things. Aside from the outer packaging (see packaging section for photos) the Fleshlight is pretty discreet as it is all closed up in a plastic black tube. Use/Overview The Shibari Halo Wand is designed to be used for giving massages but many of us like using wands for clitoral stimulation or other sexual pleasures. The Shibari Halo Wand can be used for back massages, shoulder massages and more. I contacted Shirbari Wands asking if they were willing to work with bloggers and I got the âYes, we would love to send you our Halo Wand!â I was excited as I am on the search for the PERFECT wand for me. There are many perks when it comes to the Shibari HaloWand from the material, being lightweight, rechargeable and waterproof. There is just so much about this wand that is awesome. The Halo Wand is available in 3 colors Pink, Black and Purple, I received mine in purple. Halo comes with a Li-Ion rechargeable battery. Shibari Halo Wand is very lightweight lighter than some of the other wands I have held or owned. Weight: 15.168 oz Measurements: 11.8 inches long 1.96 inches in diameter at the head of the wand .78 inches in diameter at the slimmest part of the handle All November Long You Can Save On Toys For Boys
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